Modern life places huge expectations on men performance, strength, control, success.
But intimacy, sensuality, and emotional connection require something entirely different, softness, presence, embodiment, sensitivity, and the ability to feel.
My Intimacy Coaching for Men is designed to help you explore these deeper parts of yourself in a safe, warm, intuitive space.
Whether you struggle with sexual confidence, emotional connection, erection issues, stress, or simply feeling numb in your body, I guide you through a gentle yet powerful journey into the masculine–feminine balance within you.
These sessions are part talking, part touching, part breathing, part connection, and include a deeply sensual Tantric-inspired full-body oily massage that helps your entire system relax, awaken and reset.
This work is transformational not just sexually, but emotionally, energetically, and in how you relate to the women in your life.
INTIMACY COACHING FOR MEN
My Approach is Intuitive, Natural, Embodied
I am not a ritualistic Tantric practitioner.
My work is not about chants, costumes, ceremonies, or spiritual performance.
Instead, I work intuitively with presence, compassion, and genuine authenticity.
I follow the flow of your body, your energy, your emotions, and your nervous system.
Every session is unique, guided by what you need in that moment.
Men tell me again and again
This is the first time I feel safe, relaxed, and fully in my body.”
This is because my approach is
grounded
non-judgmental
sensual but respectful
feminine, warm, and intuitive
trauma-aware
guided by compassion, not pressure
I meet you exactly where you are and support you in expanding into the man you want to become.
Why Men Benefit from This Work
Many men carry anxiety, pressure, or confusion when it comes to intimacy.
Others feel disconnected from their body, pleasure, confidence, or feminine side.
My sessions help you
reconnect with your body
regulate your arousal and nervous system
experience receiving without pressure to “perform”
feel more grounded, sensual, and emotionally open
awaken sensitivity & pleasure
become a better lover present, conscious, and confident
And yes this work often brings profound benefits for your sexual health, including improved erection quality, delayed ejaculation, and a stronger, healthier prostate.
Learning to Connect With Your Feminine Side
A key part of my work with men is guiding them into their yin their feminine energy.
This includes
receiving instead of giving
softening instead of controlling
feeling instead of analyzing
expressing instead of suppressing
For many men, this is deeply liberating.
You learn that masculinity is not rigid it becomes stronger when it learns softness.
You discover that intimacy feels better when you stop overthinking and drop into your body.
You realise that women respond differently to men who are emotionally attuned, grounded, and embodied.
Special Focus: Sexual Dysfunction (PE, ED, Low Libido)
Taoist Sexology for Men
A significant part of my work supports men dealing with:
Premature Ejaculation (PE)
Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
performance anxiety
low libido
difficulty feeling pleasure
numbness or shutdown
porn-induced dysfunction
prostate tension or pain
anxiety around intimacy
These challenges often have emotional, energetic, and nervous-system origins, not just physical ones.
Using Taoist sexology, I teach
Breathwork for Ejaculation Control
Slowing the urge, regulating arousal, avoiding the “cliff”.
Pelvic floor relaxation & strengthening
Balancing tone improves erections, stamina, and confidence.
Energy circulation practices
Helping you feel pleasure through your whole body, not just genitals.
Sensitivity awakening
Healing numbness and reactivating pleasure in natural ways.
Nervous system down-regulation
Most erection issues are caused by stress not the body itself.
Sexual de-conditioning
Undoing porn habits, performance patterns, fear, and old sexual narratives.
Full-body sensual massage
Designed to melt tension, open the fascia, awaken pleasure, and ground your energy.
Men often experience improvements quickly because the work goes straight to the root cause rather than masking symptoms.
FAQ's
Do you work with all men?
Yes. My work is inclusive of all men, regardless of age, background, sexual orientation, or level of experience with sex, intimacy or tantra.
Many men come to me feeling unsure or nervous that’s completely normal and welcome.
Is this therapy?
No. This is not psychotherapy or clinical treatment.
It is embodied intimacy coaching, blending:
Taoist sexology
somatic awareness
conscious touch
nervous system relaxation
emotional intelligence
sensual full-body massage
My work is grounded, intuitive, and very human.
Is the massage sexual?
No. The massage is sensual, not sexual.
There are no sexual acts or explicit behaviour in my sessions.
The intention is healing and connection never performance or erotic service.
Do you help with sexual dysfunction like PE and ED?
Yes, this is a major part of my work.
I support men experiencing:
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Premature Ejaculation (PE)
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Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
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performance anxiety
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low libido or desire
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shame around intimacy
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difficulty feeling pleasure
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numbness or dissociation
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porn-induced dysfunction
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prostate tension or pain
I use Taoist sexology techniques, breathwork, pelvic floor awareness, and body-based practices that address the root causes emotional, energetic, and nervous-system related.
Many men experience significant improvement.
What exactly happens in a session?
Each session is a blend of
conversation & emotional connection
breathwork
grounding the nervous system
conscious touch education
feeling, receiving, surrendering
hugging (if comfortable)
tantric-inspired sensual full-body oil massage
It is always intuitive, gentle, and paced with full consent.
Do I need experience with tantra?
Not at all.
Most men who come to me have no previous experience.
Everything is taught in a simple, natural, non-ritualistic way.
What if I feel shy, nervous, or embarrassed?
Completely normal.
Men often arrive feeling anxious or uncertain but quickly relax once the session begins.
My approach is compassionate, respectful, and grounded.
You are always in control and free to set boundaries.
Does arousal happen? Is it okay?
Arousal may happen naturally your body is simply responding to relaxation and touch.
It is welcomed without shame, but never the focus or the intention of the session.
There is no pressure, no expectations.
What should I wear in the session ? And will you be nude ?
At the beginning of the session, you remain fully clothed as we talk, breathe, and settle into the connection work.
As the session progresses and we transition into the body-based practices and massage, you are invited to undress only to the level that feels comfortable for you.
its my belief that skin-to-skin contact supports nervous-system regulation, grounding, and deeper relaxation.
Body-to-body is a therapeutic contact always with clear boundaries, consent, and respect.
How long is a session?
Sessions are typically
2 hours
3-4hrs
Deep immersive 4-6 hour sessions available upon request
Longer sessions allow deeper nervous-system relaxation and more embodiment.
Do you offer sessions in London?
Yes.
I offer private sessions in
Central London E1
Home visits
I also may be available for sessions in Portugal (Sintra Cascais, Lisbon, Algarve).
Can I book online sessions?
Yes online sessions are ideal for
emotional intimacy
communication coaching
Taoist sexology education
porn recovery guidance
breathwork for sexual confidence
Touch work and massage require in-person sessions.
Is everything confidential?
Absolutely.
Your privacy is fully respected.
I never share personal details, names, or anything about your sessions.
How many sessions do I need?
It depends on your goals. Some men come only once, some once a month, others every 2/3/6 months , and some do a short-term program like once a month for 3 months .
some come for years as i have many clients for over a decade still coming regularly to see me.
Most men feel noticeable changes in
confidence
arousal control
relaxation
emotional clarity
within the first few sessions.
How do I book?
You can contact me directly through the website or email:
amanda@sacredwombcoaching.com
We begin with a short introduction call to understand what you’re seeking and to design the right approach for you.
Maybe it’s not the right time to meet in person…
Sometimes life is busy, or you simply feel more comfortable starting with guidance, clarity, and emotional support before exploring touch-based work.
Or maybe you just need someone to talk to openly, honestly, without shame or judgment about the questions that have been sitting inside you for years.
You may not need a massage or an in-person session right now.
You may just need practical advice, emotional grounding, and a safe space to express the deepest questions you haven’t been able to ask anyone else about intimacy, sex, masculinity, your body, or your relationships.
Talking About Sex Doesn’t Mean Anything Beyond That
When we speak about sex, it is simply that a conversation.
I have listened to hundreds of clients over the years, and truly, nothing shocks me when it comes to human sexuality.
As long as your intentions are honest and respectful, I welcome your questions with openness and compassion.
This is a space where you can finally
ask what you’ve been afraid to ask
share what you’ve never told anyone
explore your patterns
understand your desires
unpack confusion or shame
receive guidance without embarrassment
Sometimes one single honest conversation can change everything.
How It Works
3-Week Emotional & Intimacy Support Program
Before you book this service, I ask that you schedule a Free Intro Call.
This helps us make sure
you feel safe and understood
we are aligned in expectations
this is the right service for you
I can genuinely support your needs
The program lasts 3 weeks, and includes ongoing support, messages, and weekly calls.
If you wish, you can extend the program or continue on a pay-as-you-go basis.
This container is ideal for men seeking
emotional clarity
advice on sexual dysfunction
guidance on dating, intimacy, or relationships
support around shame, guilt, fear, or performance anxiety
tools to reconnect with the body and pleasure
a safe space to talk about anything sexual or emotional
support during a transition, breakup, or personal growth phase
You don’t have to figure everything out alone.
Best Value
Mentoring Emotional support + 3 sessions
90
Every week
3 Online sessions plus regular support via whatsapp
Valid for 3 weeks
3 Sex & Intimacy Online Coaching Sessions
Mentoring and emotional support via Whatsapp
